of·fen·sive (defined) adjective
causing someone to feel deeply hurt, upset, or angry.
"the allegations made are deeply offensive to us"
synonyms: insulting, insolent, derogatory, disrespectful, hurtful, wounding, abusive;annoying, exasperating, irritating, galling, provocative, outrageous; rude, impertinent, discourteous, uncivil, impolite;crude, vulgar, coarse, improper, indecent;
•(of a sight or smell) disgusting; repulsive.
synonyms: unpleasant, disagreeable, nasty, distasteful, displeasing, objectionable, off-putting, awful, terrible, dreadful, frightful, obnoxious, abominable, disgusting, repulsive, repellent, repugnant, revolting, abhorrent, loathsome, detestable, odious, vile, foul, sickening, nauseating;informalghastly, horrible, horrid, gross, putrid, godawful, beastly;